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In Case Anyone's Wondering....
Mar. 13th, 2006 02:48 pmAbout what happened with the confronation with my mother, I mean...
I'm sorry I've kind of left you all in the dark about it, but I've been rather busy these past few days.
Anyways, after that night my mother and I talked two more times. She become increasingly more desperate during each conversation, but I stood firm and at the end of the third convo, I think I got through to her at least a bit. Anyways, she said that she won't tell my father because she wants me to do it when I'm ready. In a sense that's good of her, in another it's not.
I was kind of hoping she'd tell him, so that way I could deal with this all at once. And besides, this isn't a subject that's easy to approach with, yeah? Especially when you're father is a homophobe. >_<;
I'm hoping that since I'm not telling my father, that my mother will have time to think on it and come to accept it. That's the ideal situation. But I'm afraid that if I don't confront my dad, then she'll just relapse into denail. Ugh.. this is so hard... but I'm not ready to deal with my father yet! What the hell! >_<;;;;
But yeah. I've spent the past few days doing family stuff, and looking for a job and such ~ that's why I haven't been around much. ^_^; Things have cooled off on the drama side of things, so I'm pretty much working on artwork right now... I've still got to polish off Lex's piccie, and I'm also working on another piece. If anyone wants to see a WIP of it, just click the linky ~
http://www.deviantart.com/view/30286680/
~ I hope everyone is doing well! I'll be back later to comment on all the things I've missed ^__^ ~ And thankyou guys SO MUCH for your support! *hugs you all*
I'm sorry I've kind of left you all in the dark about it, but I've been rather busy these past few days.
Anyways, after that night my mother and I talked two more times. She become increasingly more desperate during each conversation, but I stood firm and at the end of the third convo, I think I got through to her at least a bit. Anyways, she said that she won't tell my father because she wants me to do it when I'm ready. In a sense that's good of her, in another it's not.
I was kind of hoping she'd tell him, so that way I could deal with this all at once. And besides, this isn't a subject that's easy to approach with, yeah? Especially when you're father is a homophobe. >_<;
I'm hoping that since I'm not telling my father, that my mother will have time to think on it and come to accept it. That's the ideal situation. But I'm afraid that if I don't confront my dad, then she'll just relapse into denail. Ugh.. this is so hard... but I'm not ready to deal with my father yet! What the hell! >_<;;;;
But yeah. I've spent the past few days doing family stuff, and looking for a job and such ~ that's why I haven't been around much. ^_^; Things have cooled off on the drama side of things, so I'm pretty much working on artwork right now... I've still got to polish off Lex's piccie, and I'm also working on another piece. If anyone wants to see a WIP of it, just click the linky ~
http://www.deviantart.com/view/30286680/
~ I hope everyone is doing well! I'll be back later to comment on all the things I've missed ^__^ ~ And thankyou guys SO MUCH for your support! *hugs you all*
